In a large bowl, mix together the pudding mix, and milk. Beat well until pudding is a thicker consistency
Fold in the thawed Cool Whip
Spray a 9x13 dish with cooking spray
Lay one layer of graham crackers. Break graham crackers to fit
Layer half the pudding mixture
Lay another layer of graham crackers
Layer remaining pudding mixture
Lay the last layer of graham crackers
Remove lid and heat frosting in the microwave for 30 seconds
Pour and spread frosting on the last layer of graham crackers
Cover and let sit for 24 hours